Toddler Hitting or Biting

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Your toddler has started hitting or biting you, other children, or siblings when they're upset or don't get their way.

Stop the behavior immediately while teaching better ways to express frustration.

"No hitting. Hitting hurts." "You're mad. Use words: 'I'm mad.'" "Gentle hands. Show me gentle."

"Bad boy/girl!" "If you hit me, I'll hit you back." "You're mean!"

Stop the behavior immediately. Get down to their level, make eye contact, and say firmly 'No hitting/biting.'

Name their emotion: 'You're angry/frustrated.' Help them use words or show them gentle touch.

Remove them from the situation briefly if needed. Stay close and calm.

Practice gentle touch when they're calm. Model and praise gentle interactions throughout the day.

Frequent aggressive behavior in toddlers can indicate frustration with communication delays. Consider if they need more language support.

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