When Your Teen Rolls Their Eyes and Shuts Down
The Situation
Your teenager dismisses what you say with eye rolls, one-word answers, or walking away mid-conversation.
Goal
Keep communication open without turning it into a power struggle.
What to Say
"I notice it seems like you don't want to talk right now. That's okay. I'm here when you're ready."
What Not to Say
"Don't roll your eyes at me!" / "You're so disrespectful." / "Fine, don't talk to me then."
3-Step Plan
Don't chase or demand engagement — it backfires with teens. Give space intentionally.
Stay connected through low-pressure moments: car rides, cooking together, watching a show.
When they do open up — even slightly — listen more than you speak. Resist the urge to advise immediately.
Follow Up
Check in casually, not formally. "Hey, how's that thing going with your friend?" works better than "We need to talk."
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